After a few dates, Marg Arnold was charmed by the new man in her life. When she discovered they both owned the same ‘sexy tool’, she knew they had a future together

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I’d been single for a couple of years when I won the booby prize in 2006. My family has a history of breast cancer so, although I was shocked, I wasn’t too surprised to find myself on the receiving end of a solemn diagnosis.

Living in regional Victoria made cancer treatment tough. I had chemo and radiotherapy locally and travelled to Melbourne for a double mastectomy and reconstructive surgery.